When did you last feel truly seen?

And when did you stop noticing that you weren’t?

Nobody sits a woman down and tells her she has become invisible. It arrives slowly. One moment at a time, until there comes a point where she’s moving through the world, silent and unseen without her permission.

This book is my refusal to submit to that point.

With over 25 years in corporate leadership and dealing with toxic family dynamics, even from those who were meant to protect and love me the most, I watched the world begin to mute me at exactly the point I was at my most capable Bestowed with the title of ‘sher’ (lion in Hindi) by my beloved mother, it took me years and six clear moves to transform from invisible and unseen to walking into every room with confidence and power. Everything I have learnt in those years and in interviews with over 100 women is in these pages.

It answers the questions women ask me constantly, such as:

•        Is it me, or is it them?

•        How do I speak up again after years of going quiet?

•        Do I have to reinvent myself to be taken seriously?

•        Is it too late to start something new at 50?

•        How do I help the women in my life feel more confident and seen?

Part memoir and part manual, You Are Not Invisible After 50 does two things. First, it proves the invisible woman is real. Then it gives you six moves to change it.